Perhaps you’re constantly worried about being attacked, hurt, or even abandoned—so you don’t feel safe even in your most intimate relationships. Or maybe you’re realizing that you’ve lived with trauma or Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) long enough, and you’re finally ready to break free with the help of counseling.
Over time, the pain of your trauma can slowly erode relationships, careers, and even your physical health in various ways.
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At the end of the day, you may even blame yourself for your emotions, your traumatic experience, and how it affects others. But you do have allies who understand. With the help of a kind and compassionate trauma therapist, it is possible to live with greater courage, confidence, and peace of mind.
It’s estimated that a whopping 50 percent of women and 60 percent of men nationwide will endure some form of trauma within their lifetime (1). And although not all of those individuals will develop PTSD, painful experiences from the past often have a way of compromising life in the present.
Because only a fraction of people ever seek treatment, you likely know someone who is silently struggling with trauma or PTSD behind the scenes of their otherwise “normal” lives.
Most of us are familiar with the typical causes of trauma, such as severe injuries or medical diagnoses, physical assault or combat experience, or the loss of a child, spouse, or sibling. However, trauma and PTSD can also result from a string of events or prolonged exposure to a toxic situation, such as childhood neglect, bullying, rejection, public humiliation, or emotional abuse.
Trauma makes it easy to get lost in the whirlwind of negative thoughts and emotions. The numbness can rob you of hope. Fear and isolation can slowly erode your emotional support network. And painful reminders, memories, and triggers keep you stuck in the past, unable to actualize change even if you knew how to make yourself feel better.
Fortunately, trauma counseling can help you find clarity amid the chaos and show you how to move forward with your life. Though it may be hard to believe—it is possible to feel safer, more grounded, and capable of navigating this world without fear.
Most people who are considering counseling for trauma worry they’ll become overwhelmed or have to relive the worst moments of their life. But be assured, our job as therapists is to make sure that doesn’t happen.
At the same time, we still want you to be able to fully express yourself. That’s why we’ll teach you valuable coping skills for regulating emotions so that, if we do touch a nerve, you’ll have the tools to stay grounded and in control of your feelings. And though talking about the past is important, we will always go at your own pace and discuss only the topics that you feel comfortable with.
Perhaps the most valuable part of trauma therapy is knowing you have someone at your side who will listen and help bear the weight of your experience. In that spirit, it is important that you understand you are not damaged or broken and that the pain that you feel can be resolved.
Our therapists are trained in a variety of different evidence-based therapeutic methods that can be tailored to your unique needs. Throughout sessions, we will focus on:
To achieve this, we first want to give you the time and space to share your story. In particular, we would like to know: How has your experience affected your relationships? What reminders or current stressors push you over the edge? What kind of goals do you have for therapy and what do you ultimately want your life to look like?
Because underlying factors may be complicating your experience, we’ll eventually want to explore aspects of your past. That could include your upbringing, childhood relationships, teen years, or any family history of trauma—anything that can help us develop a treatment plan that’s right for you.
Regardless of your situation, you do have a place where you can go to let your guard down, tell your story, and finally begin the healing you deserve. We know it may be difficult to reach out for help, but you’re on the cusp of discovering a brand new life for yourself: one filled with hope, confidence, and an enduring sense of safety and peace.